Zina takes everything from you.
Your wealth, state of mind, everything.
It’s one of the few sins in the Qur’an called “fahishah” — pure filth.
Here’s why it’s far more destructive than you think
my mom says “If a man wants the benefits of having a good woman without the responsibility of being a good man. That’s not a partner. That’s a parasite.”
So let me get this straight, Muslims shouldn't celebrate their holidays, and people wanted Children's Day cancelled because of the insecurity crisis in Nigeria? Meanwhile Easter was celebrated, Christmas and New Year celebrations faced no such outrages; Local festivals following traditions in villages hasn't been paused out of concern either, and no-one even called for the cancellation of the AMVCA or other big events. But it is Islam and Children Day that are the focus?
Did the security problems start today? Where was this energy before now?
It is selfishness to enter someone's life, see that they are loving, cheerful, and a good person. Then you decide to ruin their life because you haven't dealt with your own past issues of insecurities and heartbreak.
The sexiest revenge is neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrr letting them have access to you again. Not out of bitterness, not to prove a point, but because some people only understand your value after they lose the privilege of reaching you. Let them remember the version of you they mishandled while you become someone they no longer qualify to touch.
Dangote has done three things in the last 72 hours that the Nigerian government could not do in 60 years.
He cut aviation fuel to N1,650 per litre, slashed diesel and aviation fuel prices at ex-depot level, and filed a lawsuit to stop NNPC and private marketers from importing fuel that his refinery is already producing in surplus.
Now the oil marketers are crying monopoly.
Let us be honest about what monopoly means in this context. For 60 years, a cartel of fuel importers held Nigeria hostage, collecting $10 billion annually in subsidy, keeping state refineries deliberately broken, and charging Nigerians premium prices for refined crude they sent abroad themselves.
Nobody called that a monopoly. Nobody filed a lawsuit about market stability when ordinary Nigerians queued for fuel in an oil producing country for decades.
One private refinery starts cutting prices, increasing supply, and going to court to enforce a law that already says imports are only permitted when local supply is insufficient, and suddenly the marketers have discovered the language of competition and consumer protection.
The law is clear. The Petroleum Industry Act only permits fuel imports when domestic supply cannot meet demand. Dangote’s refinery is supplying over 90% of Nigeria’s daily petrol consumption. The legal basis for those import licences does not exist. He is not asking for a favour. He is asking for the law to be applied.
The marketers built their business model on Nigeria’s inability to refine its own oil. That inability has been solved by one man with private capital. Their business model is obsolete and their objection is not about market stability. It is about market access to a rent they no longer deserve.
a happy marriage tutorial for men:
1.Learn that “I hear you” fixes more problems than “actually…”
2.Compliment your wife randomly, not just when you’re in trouble.
3.If she says she’s cold, this is not a debate. Bring the blanket.
4.Survive every argument by remembering you can be happy or technically correct. Choose wisely.
5.Dates should continue after marriage. Romance is not a limited-time offer.
6.Learn the difference between “Do you want solutions?” and “Do you want me to listen?”
7. Help around the house without acting like you deserve a Nobel Prize for washing one plate.
8.Defend your wife in public. Discuss disagreements in private.
9.Remember anniversaries before the government has to issue reminders.
10.Most importantly: if she says “nothing’s wrong,” begin investigations immediately.
INNA LILLAHI WA INNA ILAIHI RAJI'UN!!!
The woman you see in these pictures is being accused of deception and betrayal. According to the statement, she moves from town to town claiming that she wants to accept Islam.
After converting, she is reportedly given shelter, care, and support by members of the Muslim community, who also assist her financially and in other ways.
The allegation further states that she then gathers people’s belongings and money before fleeing to another town where she allegedly repeats the same act.
The statement claims that her original name is Joy John, and her phone number is listed as 0907 547 905. People are being urged to search for her on Facebook and TikTok to verify the claims.
It further alleges that she recently arrived in Falgore forest area, accepted Islam, was welcomed and cared for, but later disappeared with mobile phones and large sums of money belonging to residents.
The public is being asked that anyone who sees her should report the matter to the nearest security authorities and contact the provided phone numbers: 07026675741 or 07017073949.
My brother cheated on his wife and she filed for divorce. Our mom advised him to fight for custody of their two kids, so he did and he won. But now he regrets it because taking care of the children alone is harder than he expected.
His ex only visits once a week while he struggles to manage everything, and the woman he cheated with already left him for someone richer. Now he says no young woman wants to be with him, and he doesn’t want to marry a single mother.
He asked his ex to contribute more towards the children’s upkeep since she earns more money, but she refused. She only pays their school fees and takes them out for fun.
He thought winning custody was the right decision… but now he isn’t so sure anymore.