People who spend long periods of time at home and slowly lose the desire to go outside often think they're just resting. But psychologically, many of them are experiencing something called mental rumination. It's a state where the brain starts slowing down while the number of thoughts inside keeps increasing and the motivation to do anything slowly disappears. The mind gets stuck in the past, worries about the future and burns itself out. This isn't laziness, it's a nervous system stuck in survival mode. And the longer it lasts, the more distant normal life begins to feel. And the difficult part is that you usually can't escape it through one massive burst of motivation. And sometimes,recovery starts with just one small step.
I can't fuck with people that don't understand the principle of things. Yeah the situation may be small but it's about the principle. Out of all the ways you could move, you choose that way?
One of the most interesting things about kink is how often “I want you to control me” actually means “I want to trust someone enough that I can stop controlling everything.”
Calling a woman "beauty with brains" reinforces the idea that beauty & intelligence are somehow mutually exclusive for women. I know most people mean it as a compliment but its worth unlearning outdated stereotypes. Its 2026, let’s stop treating women's intelligence as a surprise
Sometimes it blows my mind that there are people that don't wear glasses/contacts. Like they can literally see with no aid. Like they wake up and just be out here seeing. What a wild concept.
i’m gonna get yelled at for saying this, but a lot of women are single because they haven’t met a man who’s better at being a man than they already are.
Exposure is EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!
Stay in proximity to the life you want.
What you can relate to is a cue to the quality and standard of life you have permitted yourself to have.
Break the loop of impossibility.
being a horny woman and a demisexual is such an annoying combo because my body is like “i wannaa fuckkkkk” and my brain is like “okay but do we trust him, do we like him, do we know his childhood trauma first” 😭