@CallmeOvuemax@Wizarab10 Most of them just have the school of thought that as a man you have to be genuinely foolish when dealing with them and that's why they can't stand a man that says no to their bs. You saw how she back down so soon cuz she knew she wasn't having her way 😂.
@gimbakakanda And there is Neymar, the sun that has set for long, but still peeping through the horizon, delaying the new dawn of other young talents to make their breakthrough into the team in selection process.
My friend sends his children’s nanny's kids to his children's school and he pays the fees. The fee is not cheap. The kids all play together.
They won't understand what is happening until they are big.
In his simple logic, the person looking after your kids deserve to have her kids looked after. Your children's lives are in her hands and she would raise them as her own.
#Mentality
A friend of mine in Switzerland 🇨🇭, Luca, once told me something that stayed with me.
He liked a lady in Zurich.
They used to talk almost every day. Nothing too serious but you know when communication has started carrying small hope.
One evening, he asked her if they could go out properly, not just random coffee after work.
She laughed and said:
“Luca, you are too reserved for me. I like men who are more spontaneous.”
He didn’t argue.
He just said okay.
The painful part was that he actually believed that was the problem.
So he started questioning himself.
Maybe I am too calm.
Maybe I don’t talk enough.
Maybe I should be more outgoing.
Maybe I should start doing too much just to look interesting.
A few months later, he saw her in Lausanne with another guy.
The guy was quieter than him.
This man barely spoke throughout the dinner. He sat there, nodded, smiled small and allowed her to do most of the talking.
The same silence she called “too reserved” in Luca had suddenly become “peaceful” in another man.
That day, Luca understood life.
Sometimes, people are not rejecting the attitude.
They are rejecting the person.
When they like you, your silence is maturity.
When they don’t like you, your silence is boredom.
When they like you, your simplicity is humility.
When they don’t like you, your simplicity is lack of ambition.
When they like you, your busy schedule means you are focused.
When they don’t like you, it means you don’t have time for them.
This is why you should not rebuild your entire personality because one person did not choose you.
Sometimes, nothing is wrong with you.
You are just not the person they want.
And that is okay.
Accept it with dignity and move.