It’s selfish to enter a person’s life, see that they are a good, genuine, and loving person and decide to wreak havoc in their life because you haven’t faced the demons of your own. Leave people alone if you have no intention of being genuine back.
This girl said, “When I lost my spark nobody noticed, because I was still showing up for others. The only way I regained my spark was by isolating myself and limiting how I gave out my resources. People noticed that though.” And that’s really how it be
I had a friend who used to call me at 4am crying about her boyfriend. I’d wake up, listen, let her vent, and then go back to sleep, more than once. One night I couldn’t sleep, so I thought I’d return the favor and called her at 4am. She answered and told me she was sleeping, & I should call back tomorrow. Moral of the story: always remember that energy you give isn’t always going to be reciprocated—set your boundaries, even with “friends.”
you’ve got 4 days to let go of everything that needs to stay in 2025. all the people, pain, disappointments, hurt, heartbreak, grudges, fear, and negativity. let it all go. 2026 is going to be a year of new beginnings