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[💗 @nayaxhh]

im at a place in my life where God is my only option. Like nothing else will work out for me in life if i don't put him first.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

ending up in therapy only bc you loved someone is crazy.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

i have a bad habit of not talking to ppl unless they talk to me 😭😭😭

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

my attitude is so fuckin bad when im annoyed that's why i just stay quiet 😂😂😂

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

ending up in therapy only because you loved someone is crazy

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

im naturally a loner. even towards my own family. idc to be in someone's face. im clingy when i love someone, but the distance i can give a person is unreal.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

i've been extra quiet & out the way these days... just giving everything to God.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

idk why but i can't trust a man

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

may i never meet another lustful lying narcissistic manipulative mf again

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

im at a stage in my life where i don't want to be CRAZY IN LOVE no more. i want to feel CALM in love. SAFE in love. UNDERSTOOD in love & CHOSEN in love.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

the worst thing a man can do is give me some time to think.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

ngl, i've never regretted being mean to a nigga. i've only ever regretted being too nice.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

life has made me so quiet, i literally have nothing to say.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

3 reasons i don't ask for shit;
i don't like being told no
i don't want it thrown back in my face
i don't want a mf to think i need them.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

i don't even talk to men anymore, i just be like wow he's fine & move on with my life.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

let him do him!!! if he doesn't wanna reply to your text until hours later LET HIM!! if he don't wanna hang out with you or make plans w you, LET HIM BE!!! a man will do what a man wants to do. if he wanted to put effort into seeing you, talking to you, or being w you, HE WOULD.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

can't be w a man i don't feel safe with. are my thoughts & insecurities safe w you?, are my fears & dreams safe w you? are you going to make me feel stupid for not being perfect? is me being imperfect okay? do i have to worry abt being judged by you? safety is my love language .

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

a man that does nothing for you deserves nothing from you.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

relationships are so much healthier when the goal is to experience life together & not to try to make the person turn into who you want them to be.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

remember to die before explaining to a nigga how to treat you right.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

"y'all enter relationships expecting shit"

i absolutely do. i expect reciprocity, loyalty, honesty, respect, genuine love, compassion and mutuality.