Being gay, having no generational wealth, living in a small city, average looks, an average job, fear of the camera, and constantly dreaming about things you never end up doing can feel like one of the harshest curses life gives someone 😵💫🌈
Intimacy is complex for gay people, sex isn't intimate, but an embrace is. Sharing a bed isn't, but waking up together is, a forehead kiss matters more than a french and a conversation after more genuine than a one before. Perhaps then what we guard is deeper than skin and what we fear is losing our sin
My therapist told me:
“When a person grows up feeling unseen, they learn to love by over-giving. They pour into everyone else, hoping that, one day, someone will finally pour back into them. So they become the care taker. The fixer. The one who shows up, even when no one shows up for them.”
And the hardest part? Deep down, they're not trying to be strong. They're just waiting for someone to do for them what they've spent their whole life doing for everyone else.
Delayed grief is very dangerous. You don't cry, you’re numb, & you move on like nothing significant happened. You keep suppressing everything until the day it finally escapes, and when it does, it's like a dam bursting, flooding your mind and heart, making it difficult to cope.
(THREAD) some unserious filipino
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1. dear college students, are you threatened by us, shs kids? are you scared because you know that we have more potential than you do?
Isa sa mga ayaw kong ER cases ay Bronchial Asthma in Acute Exacerbation especially if tourists sila rito sa Baguio. Huhu
TYL at nagrespond ang bebe sa neb.
I’m on the 11th season of Modern Family for the first time and I’m scared to reach the final episode.
Can I restart without finishing it the first time?