It is only when they are saying nonsense or going through shit, that they tell you to marry first. It is as if they want you to come and face what they are facing.
They never tell you to "marry first" when it is about bliss and happiness.
Let me even clear up this "marry first" nonsense.
Many of you are in terrible marriages. There is nothing supernatural about you being married. We didn't start meeting and talking to married people on Twitter.
A bad marriage is still a marital experience. Married people do not have same opinion on issues. If what you're saying doesn't make sense, it doesn't make sense. Whether you're married or not is irrelevant.
Your own marriage is exactly what YOU make if it. It is not the reflection of all marriages.
Asking you to be my girlfriend doesnโt mean iโm your boyfriend. youโre the one whoโs my girlfriend. if you want me to be your boyfriend, you have to ask me too.
I wonder why people think that if we don't talk for a while, we're automatically fighting; it's so weird. Don't you ever just get busy or spend time thinking about life?