Nadhifa Alim Hapsari

[Mental Redemption™ @MentalRedemptn]

A lot of people forget a simple truth:
Sometimes you’re not the problem — you’re just the closest target.

Yes, people project their own demons.
Anger, insecurity, unresolved pain… it spills onto whoever’s in front of them.
A sudden outburst from a friend, partner, or family member usually started long before you walked into the room.

But here’s the part people avoid:
You also need the courage to look inward.

Not obsessively.
Not blaming yourself for everyone’s emotions.
But with enough honesty to see your own patterns, your own mistakes, your own blind spots.

Because real peace comes from two things at the same time:

1. Knowing when it’s not about you.
2. Knowing when it is.

If you only do the first, you become delusional.
If you only do the second, you become self-destructive.

The balance is the key.

Sometimes you’re truly doing nothing wrong — you’re just absorbing storms that don’t belong to you.
And sometimes, the tension in a relationship or a misunderstanding with a stranger does carry a piece of your responsibility.
Ignoring that part kills growth.

But once you learn to recognize both sides — your own role and their projection — you stop taking everything personally and you stop blaming everyone else for everything you live.

That’s when your peace becomes real…
because you’re not handing it away,
and you’re not lying to yourself either.

Discernment is the real freedom.
And that’s when nothing — and no one — can control your inner world anymore.

[Censored Humans @CensoredHumans]

Don't Stay Silent 🍉

[liminal @Liminal1988]

Read this when life feels overwhelming

[Iim Fahima Jachja @iimfahima]

Dalam case @ikanatassa, kita harus punya standar baru:

Bahwa pelaporan atas kekerasan berbasis gender itu bukan serangan balik, tapi upaya penyelamatan ruang publik.

Bahwa diam terhadap misogini bukanlah netralitas, tapi pengkhianatan terhadap nilai keadilan.

Tindakan Ika, setidaknya sampai menit ini saya perhatikan, bukan abuse of power.

Betul dia menggunakan power/kekuasaan.

Tapi tidak semua penggunaan kekuasaan = penyalahgunaan kekuasaan.

Jika akun anonim secara konsisten menghujat perempuan, melakukan ujaran kebencian, fitnah, atau ancaman—maka tindakan melaporkan ke pihak berwenang atau atasan merupakan tindakan perlindungan diri dan masyarakat, BUKAN ABUSE.

Tindakan ini bisa dianggap sebagai bentuk digital justice.

[Alexander Thian @aMrazing]

I am beyond disgusted. Using genocide of the people in Palestine for your campaign? I will never, ever, buy anything from Zara, ever again. This is absolutely cruel, heartless and evil. Mocking more than 20 thousand deaths of Palestinian people for a freaking campaign?? Udah gila marah aku banget liat ini. #BOYCOTTZARA

[Brian 🇵🇸 @briandito]

Watermelon field 🍉🍉🍉

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[• @Al__Quraan]

“My Lord knows everything that is said in the heavens and the earth: He is the All Hearing, the All Knowing.”

-Al Qur’aan [21:4]

[Shaykh Azhar Nasser @ShaykhAzhar]

If we wanna cope with the hardships of this life, we need to understand one simply reality…

[Nicolas Boucher @BoucherNicolas]

Are you looking to explain accounting to kids in a fun and easy-to-understand way?

Here is the easiest way!

[Rez Karim @rezkhere]

AI just killed Excel.

No more complex formulas and watching 10-hour tutorials.

Introducing Rows, the only AI Excel tool you will ever need (It's 100% free) 👇

[Nadhifa Alim Hapsari @ndhip]

When other parents are thinking hard about what kind of hampers they can present at their child's birthday,

..then come this sweet hampers from the last birthday girl at Dhanis’ class. Such a heartwarming 🧡

[The Woke Salaryman @wokesalaryman]

Must I really be in charge of people to progress?!!

DISCLAIMER: BROUGHT TO YOU BY @WorkforceSG. DO NOT PROCEED IF MESSAGES OF PROGRESSION ARE IRRELEVANT TO YOU.

[Tansu Yegen @TansuYegen]

Advices to keep the good employees

[Alexander Thian @aMrazing]

Di era sosial media ini, yang perlu dibina dan disyukuri adalah the joy of missing out; like you know the trend but you feel such relief you’re not interested in joining the herds because it just doesn’t suit you. To live in your own happy land is such a blessing

[Nadhifa Alim Hapsari @ndhip]

@theonlykika Nambahin 1 lagi ya mba: Bakso. Aslik bakso manapun di surabaya ga ada lawan 🫠

[dari halte ke halte @drhaltekehalte]

Satu lagi ruang publik cantik dan multifungsi hadir di Jakarta. Udah gitu, lokasinya strategis banget buat jadi tempat janjian, atau sekedar nongkrong bareng, yaitu Taman Literasi Martha Christina Tiahahu yang lokasinya persis di samping MRT Blok M!
#dhkh

[Bimo Kusumo @Bimo_KY]

Ada kawan kecil gw berucap : “nanti pas lo dah negatif kalo bisa jangan bilang udah lulus trs nyebut sarjana covid yah, bapak ibu gw gak lulus kuliah ini soalnya, gagal jadi sarjana. bilang aja berhasil sembuh atau bisa selamat lewatin fase infeksi”

[Nadhifa Alim Hapsari @ndhip]

Do not listen to others. Listen to your body 💆🏻‍♀️

[Nadhifa Alim Hapsari @ndhip]

@ichahoo Happy birthday chahoo! 🥳