I pray I marry a man who actually wants to be married. A man who isn't out here embarrassing the family we created.. I pray I marry an honest, hardworking, loving man. I pray he has morals, goals, and boundaries.
A LOT of niggas really think a woman can’t be alone. 😂 Baby, I don’t NEED nobody that bad. Once I get tired of being played with, used, disrespected & disappointed, being SINGLE starts feeling REAL luxurious. 💅🏾
I’m not arguing.
I’m not begging.
I’m not explaining myself 37 times.
And I damn sure ain’t chasing a nigga who can’t appreciate me.
I’d rather be ALONE, looking good, feeling good, making money & protecting my peace than laying next to somebody who constantly gets on my nerves. 😭
At this point, access to me is a PRIVILEGE. If you fumble me, congratulations… you get to miss me in PEACE. 💋💯
one thing about me.. i can go through a lot & nobody would NEVER know unless i speak on it! im built for ANY & EVERYTHING, i can go to war 10 times and come back with a few scratches.
Do NOT teach my child to keep secrets from me. Ever. If I find out you told my child “don’t tell your mom,” that access is revoked. I don’t care if it’s candy, soda, or something small, that’s how dangerous boundaries start getting blurred. Not happening.
wanna be a good mom? take CARE of yourself. cry. run. take a bubble bath. go to therapy. go to the gym. scream. be alone. get a babysitter. quit your job. get a better job. get your nails done. go to your appointments. do whatever YOU need to do. THEY need you to be okay.
you got this.
I don’t stay in the house to prove I’m a good girl or impress a man . I just genuinely like being home, safe, at peace , minding my business. I don’t enjoy pretending to have fun in loud rooms full of people I don’t even like that. If I step out , it’s for something meaningful💞.
a woman's IDGAF hits different than a man. men run back to whoever got their arms open. but when a woman is off you. SHE'S OFF YOU!!! and the best part be the peace and glow up that comes after moving on.
behind every child whose dad chooses to be absent from their life , is a MOTHER who NEVER misses a moment . a mother who is there through the good , the bad & the easy . a mother who reassures them everything is going to be okay . a mother they can rely on . a mother who teaches them they deserve better than being an option . a mother who would sacrifice ANYTHiNG for them to grow into a healthy , independent , confident & successful person 🤞🏽🫶🏽