The person you choose to be your life partner affects everything in your life. Your mental health, your happiness, how you get through tragedies, your successes, how your children will be raised & much more.
Choose wisely!!
Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you.
There's nothing to feel sorry for, one bit, for this former footballer Lerato Chabangu, except only lessons. He isn't a victim of any kind, God favoured him, gave him talent and the opportunity to earn money but be blew it
There's a saying, a simp and his money soon part ways. His uncontrollable lust for women, alcohol and material things led to his demise. A wise man will fold his umbrella in sunny days, for he knows he'll need it in rainy day
Simply meaning a man must save & invest in his peak, so he can be safe in his washed up years. This seems to be a problem with black athletes all over the globe, they have no control of their sexual urges, no control of their throats and no control of their pockets
He must man up, he can't be asking for donations, an able bodied man like him, he must accept he has to start earning money other ways. A man must work, he must sweat, maybe he'll be more cautious this time
Learn OR perish!!!
Harsh reality. Most women who go to work have work husbands/boyfriends. Work husbands actually exist. Your woman will be in a relationship with you back home, but simultaneously also in one with a workmate/boss
She gets to do all the things a wife would do for a husband - packs lunch for him and obviously sleep together, either in the office, car or lodges. And that's why your woman is hardly in the mood, because she's getting it somewhere
Real passionate sex, not the boring sex you have with her. Think about it, the thrill of having sex in the office, bending her ass on the chair, desk, cupboards unlike with you on your flat boring bed. No wonder she's hardly in the mood
Those late hours at the office, it's not really work but just some late night knacking. Why do you think she's excited when they have seminars/workshops, that's a well deserved vacation with her work husband, far away from you
That time you'll be texting "be safe babe" oh yes she's safe, safe in her work husband's hands. Which is why it's important to visit your woman's workplace randomly. Even if you don't see her cheating, you may be shocked to see a man who resembles your funny looking kids back home. Not to mention the funny looks her workmates give you
This is why by all means every man should strive to earn more, so that your woman can stay home, this work thing is risky. Infact if your woman works, they're high chances, she has already cheated, she is cheating or she will cheat. How you handle that is entirely up to you
Learn OR perish!!!
A month ago, Nigerian men were apprefiating this woman (Mum Zee) for waking up in the morning to cook food for her husband to eat at work
This week South African men are appreciating this woman (Ntandokazi) for her humility, soft & calm demeanor
Guess who is attacking these women? Fellow women, throwing all kinds of insult, from trolling their looks & even digging up things from their past
Had these women trended for the wrong reasons like nudity, sex tapes, vulgar, divorce etc, they would be defending & even praising them
The truth is bad women can't stand to see good women exhibiting feminine qualities & being appreciated by men
Learn OR perish!!!