Nadie te enseña a gestionar toda la profunda tristeza y rabia que te despierta cobrar consciencia sobre la realidad de la sociedad con respecto a las mujeres. Cómo nos consideran seres inferiores, objetos para servirles.
Perhaps the sweetest part of adulthood is discovering that soulmates are not always lovers. Sometimes they are the girls who danced barefoot with you in the kitchen and helped you bury every version of yourself that had become too heavy to carry.
A lot of men want mother-love from women they’re romantically involved with.
They want to be accepted as-is, endlessly forgiven, emotionally carried, and loved without having to grow.
amo observar minha esposa feliz com as amigas dela, conversando sobre assuntos que ela não fala comigo, rindo de piadas que nunca escutei, sendo amada como merece
jamais seria capaz de suicidar a intimidade das relações que fazem quem eu amo feliz.
I am extremely jealous of the people who were quiet and well behaved in high school/ college and then aged like wine into really cool, outgoing, hot, artistic and unique people. They all have friends still in their late 20s and know who they are and have cool interests
I love when you tell people you’ve been reading a number of books on pagan and Anglo-Saxon Britain, medieval and early modern folklore and customs, etc. and they ask, “Are you writing a dissertation?” No, I just like to learn. I have to know.
‘I’m emotionally overwhelmed right now and I don’t want to say something to hurt you unintentionally. I’d like to delay this conversation so we can revisit it when I’m more prepared.’ - self-awareness like this is key in sustaining healthy connections.
Just a reminder, Conclave (2024) never got even nominated for best cinematography at the oscars, but the movie about an architect where they used AI for the backgrounds won, let that sink in