@chrystalisme I've cut back on hearing my friends' heavy relationship woes because I got burned out, though I miss being able to make them feel a little better with my words sometimes. It's in my nature. But enough of this discourse. Have we talked enough to become oomfs now?
@chrystalisme (...) we've heard about their partner, even if some of those things were just said in the heat of an argument and don't necessarily reflect who that person is. It's a strange position to be in. Sorry, this turned into a little vent. Anyway, W take.
@chrystalisme Non-oomf, but someone finally put it into words. I was going to write my own take, but your quote already covered most of what I wanted to say.
One thing I'd add is that being the caring friend takes a toll, too. When they make up, we're left carrying all the ugly things (...)