@rt59799094@_shola__ Do not say that again. Whatever a woman says, take it seriously; otherwise, it will become the norm and cause more harm than ignoring them.
There is something I want to say with regards to the man who betrayed his best friend by sleeping with his intended wife.
In our conversation, he said that the man and the lady broke up many time within a year.
And that it was his friend who was always going back to beg her.
Without making any excuses for him, I want to say that the reason the girl was bold enough to cheat on him with his best friend is partly because of that.
He repeatedly showed weakness and the inability to walk away from a relationship that clearly, the lady was being begged to remain in.
For some other men who are fond of behaving this way, it may not be your friend that she will sleep with, but be rest assured that the probability of her cheating on you will be high.
His best friend is not the only one that she's cheating with.
And truth is, she still is not expecting to be the wife of her man.
When he proposes, she may reject the proposal because she knows what is amidst.
If she accepts the proposal, then he is in for a long thing.
And that's when she will start to manipulate his best friend and will continue to sleep with him, too.
Just this morning, a man sent me a DM related to the story.
In his case, it was the wife of a very good customer of his.
The man so patronized his business and he made fortune from it.
But when his wife made passes at him, he turned her down.
He didn't tell her husband.
But he noticed that the man completely stopped coming to his shop and even patronizing him.
He knew why that happened but he decided to forget it and moved on, since his conscience was clear.
So here is what I will advise any man that may be unfortunate to find himself in similar situations.
Once you notice that the wife or girlfriend of someone that is close to you, or your customer in business is moving towards you, please try to get evidence of either chat messages, voice calls or voice recording.
Women hate rejection.
And when you reject their advances, they can flip it on you.
Not all men have the discernment or maturity to completely ignore you, or doubt their women's side of the story.
Should they confront you, you'll now be able to bring out your evidence and save yourself.
End.
Speak less and listen more....
Be humble and polite to others. No matter how they treat you. In the future, they will regret it.
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The irony.
The answer is simple
Why are modern women so angry and frustrated?
Modern women have been deceived with a grand delusion that they can have it all.
They believe they can have their cake and eat it
Reality doesn't work like that
No one has it all irrespective of the gender
Something must give
You want a career that's 100% focused and nothing else matters? Your relationships or family will have to bear a little strain. If you flip it to focus on relationships and family, your career/finances will have to give.
Men who spent their lives working to provide for their families paid the price of not having very functional relationships with their children - that's what they sacrificed.
Something has to give
Men who delay marriage to fix their finances understand they will be invisible to most women so they put in the work to attain financial stability before getting married in their 40s or 50s. On the other hand, men who jumped into marriage early and broke did that with the understanding that they would have to accept/tolerate certain inconveniences and do certain things in the process to stabilize themselves.
If you want to be a slay queen in your prime years of early 20s, it's delusional to think you'll wake up one day in your 40s and want to get married then demand that men would leave a 20-year-old girl for you.
Something has to give
No matter your gender, there must be trade offs you'll make in life.
The earlier you accept that reality, the easier your life would be
Choose your fu...cks wisely
The man went too far just to get secs, shows he is a man who thinks he has no options. However, it is fraudulent for a wvmån to rely on her vajaina to get an unsuspecting man to marry her.
As the man is wrong for using marriage to get access to her vajaina, she is equally wrong for using her vajaina to get access to the man’s commitment