I am a firm believer that you gotta dead leave a nigga alone the first time they play. Even if you go back at some point (that’s your business) you gotta cold turkey cut a nigga clean off & act like he never existed. No sad ass posts, no revenge, just move around.
when you finally realize that someone’s behavior has more to do with their internal struggle than it ever did with you, you learn grace. you also naturally learn detachment as well.
if you catch yourself BEGGING someone for…human decency? a response? time together? clarify? respect? some compassion? some kindness? you need to make a step back & realize you’re begging someone for bare minimum. that’s ridiculous beneath you. fuck that shit.