You can literally change your life any day. You can literally wake up tomorrow and decide you want something different. You can literally rebrand. You can literally change your location your appearance your circle your thoughts, never underestimate the power of a decision.
Please teach your daughters that following a man through hell is not love. Sticking by his side while he drags you through years of embarrassment and infidelity that makes you question your worth is not love. Abandoning your dignity and self respect to keep the peace is not lo-