Cutting people off for how they view you is actually incredibly valid. I have no dealings with people who view everything I say or do through a negative lens. That’s a huge waste of time.
I think ppl get offended when you aren't ashamed of things that they were taught to be ashamed of. They resent you for not caring what everybody thinks
“Do you want kids” actually I want to be so deeply and safely inlove with a genuine, handsome, considerate, emotionally intelligent, healed provider of a man that the only feasible next option is to make him a father.
I’m happy i learned everybody don’t gotta get cut off sometimes u can just take space or set boundaries. like we don’t gotta throw eachother away over everything