my money don't jiggle jiggle, it folds

Smart..determined..a lil bit of a perfectionist..miserable *-* with a big heart.Like to try new things..to a point..but most of all, I'm a Christian.still tryin

[my money don't jiggle jiggle, it folds @nekochan20]

I'm doing it..been doing it for 25 yrs and I STILL wouldn't recommend it. It's exhuasting

[Skeng @TheMorrisonView]

I wish people would stop trying to force living in Portmore/Old Harbour on people. Yes you did it and that’s fine. I lived in Portmore for most of my life and the traffic got to a point it was affecting me physically/mentally. 2 hrs of traffic in the morning and 2 again evening

[Richard Staple, BSN, RN🇯🇲 @RichStapless]

@Phil_Lewis_ So basically

[my money don't jiggle jiggle, it folds @nekochan20]

@chiefofstaffZA Beautifully said.

[Chief of Staff ZA 🇿🇦 @chiefofstaffZA]

Let us say the uncomfortable part out loud.

Jonasi Gomora was the fire.

But the women around him kept giving that fire oxygen.

That is the conversation The Polygamist forced us to have.

Yes, Jonasi lied.

Yes, he betrayed.

Yes, he moved like a man who knew too many people would still open the door for him.

But after 22 episodes, the real question is no longer only:

Why was Jonasi like that?

The real question is:

Why did these women keep making room for a man who kept breaking the room?

Joyce received divorce papers and still begged him to stay.

That was not love standing strong.

That was a woman terrified of losing the life she had built around one man.

Essie saw the signs.

She saw the humiliation.

She saw another woman being brought into the story.

And still, she swallowed her voice for years until silence became part of her marriage.

Matipa knew the house was already burning before she entered.

But she still walked in with ambition, hope, pride, and a dangerous belief that maybe she could win where others had lost themselves.

That is why The Polygamist is bigger than cheating.

It is about what happens when a woman wants to be chosen so badly that she stops choosing herself.

It is about the kind of love that slowly turns into endurance.

The kind of forgiveness that stops being holy and starts becoming self-betrayal.

The kind of loyalty that makes you clap for your own disrespect because you are scared to walk away empty-handed.

Jonasi did not force endless forgiveness.

They kept serving it.

Jonasi did not force them to shrink.

They kept adjusting themselves to fit inside his chaos.

And that is the part that should scare people.

Because once your standards start moving backwards, even humiliation can begin to look normal.

You will share a man and call it patience.

You will accept public embarrassment and call it marriage.

You will keep forgiving the same wound and call it maturity.

You will stay in a situation that is eating you alive and say, “At least he comes home.”

No.

Love is not supposed to erase you.

Marriage is not supposed to make you disappear from your own life.

And forgiveness is not supposed to become a key you keep handing to someone who keeps entering your peace with dirty shoes.

Joyce, Essie, and Matipa were different women.

But they all showed us one dangerous thing:

When self love is weak, even a bad situation can start feeling like home.

Jonasi was wrong.

But their silence protected him.

Their forgiveness enabled him.

Their fear gave him more time.

Their low standards gave him space to keep moving like a king in houses he was destroying.

That is the real sting of The Polygamist.

Sometimes the person hurting you is guilty.

But the door they keep using is still in your hands.

Choose yourself before someone teaches you how little they can give and still keep you.

[JAY 💞 @Janiee_Jayy]

My worst fear is getting pregnant and not knowing who the mother is because it can't be me😭

[detach @detachdaily]

you ever look back at a period of your life and wonder why you spent so much time trying to make something work that was clearly making you miserable

[Brian Maierhofer @brianmaierhofer]

I'm a therapist and I hate to break it to you but

Change is easier than you realize (you'd just rather be comfortable).

Here’s how:

[yimika| @yimikaaaa]

You MUST by all means develop a strong opinion of yourself so you don't end up internalizing the beliefs others have of you.

[Pejuola| HR🗣️ @Pejuola_a]

Corporate girlies, show me your everyday work shoes. I need recommendations.

[my money don't jiggle jiggle, it folds @nekochan20]

Not me proving the tweet right by crying today.

[Taurus Groove @jiggyjayy2]

Oh gosh, it's almost them fucking cry babies birthdays. Here we go

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

"I don't think you're happier if you're thin or beautiful or rich or married. You have to make your own happiness. My heroines do not become beautiful elegant swans, they become confident ducks and get on with life."

— Jesse Wilcox Smith - Rain, Rain go Away

[. @Fimiye]

i wish there was a more intense way to express my emotions than crying. i want to burst into flames

[Nithya Shri @Nithya_Shrii]

You don’t actually have to be good at your hobbies. You can just enjoy them and be bad at them.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Over-explaining is a form of emotional begging.

It keeps you trap in a cycle of anxiety.

How to say less and mean more:

[my money don't jiggle jiggle, it folds @nekochan20]

As if the dollies weh spend them money getting lit wan no scabby fr the parking lot. Ew. Yuck. 🤢

[jeffreels_ @ach3im]

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[my money don't jiggle jiggle, it folds @nekochan20]

Lawd....a little rain a Spanish Town lord, plz, I beg

[Vidokti @vidokti]

Met put the hazy first this time. Goodbye blue sky. 😂

[my money don't jiggle jiggle, it folds @nekochan20]

Over reacting and doing the most. Taught us how to worry, lie and cover up.

[Cinderella Man @Osi_Suave]

I broke a mug yesterday in my kitchen and I just swept it up and kept it moving.

And I wonder why our parents made so much fuss about breaking things when we were growing up.

[my money don't jiggle jiggle, it folds @nekochan20]

@AthenaMarley Same but I really enjoy it

[s. ceren (FEMMEPATH) @turk1shprincess]

This concept changed my brain chemistry entirely. Every time I’m anxious I just keep repeating “don’t suffer twice” cuz literally why the fuck would I do that