My therapist told me, โNo one notices your sadness until it turns into anger, and then youโre the problem. Healing is realizing you became the angry person because no one saw your sadness firstโ and I felt that.
When a woman tells you the things that bothers her, it's because she still want you in her life. A SILENT WOMAN is a TIRED woman, and when she get TIRED, she's ready to leave.
She only gets two good weeks in a month. One week is spent in pain and bleeding.The week before that in mood swings, tears, and random cravings. That's half her life spent dealing with her own body.And in the other half, she still chooses to love you, care for you, and show up. So go easy on her.
Be patient. Be kind, especially when she doesn't have the energy to explain what she's feeling.
sex is NOT love.
Going on dates is NOT love.
Talking 24/7 is NOT love.
Laying up is NOT love.
love is someone seeing the absolute worst side of you & still loving you the same, it's someone making stuff happen for you when you can't, it's someone holding you & calming you down while you pouring your eyes out, it's someone voicing all the good things about you when all you see is the bad, it's someone making sure you're okay, someone praying for you every day & night, it's someone that makes you laugh & smile when you feel down,
every eldest daughter needs an acts of service man. a man who takes care of most tasks, so she can relax & be silly. a man who only asks for kisses & devotion.