An underrated green flag is when a man notices you're stressed & quietly handles the small things to lighten your load. No man is perfect but a man who tries and put in efforts is EVERYTHING >>>
So my bestfriend went through her husband's phone while he was asleep (btw she didn't find anything). But instead of arguing he bought her snacks, chocolates & flowers with a card that says "I'm sorry for not making you feel secure & nobody owns my heart but you". Dream Guy !!
@feyiszn It's eye-opening, isn't it?
At some point, maturity means taking a good look in the mirror.
Growth isn't just for show; it's the core of becoming better for ourselves and those we care about.
It's about commitment to change, not just comfort in old habits.
Realizing that you really are the one to save yourself in the end is extremely freeing. I was stuck in a victim like mentality for a long time. I would use childhood trauma as a crutch to continue to stay complacent. At some point, you get tired of looking to blame everything-