life is hard already. please, choose someone who chooses you; not just in words, but in actions. someone who's there for you, stays consistent, and makes you feel wanted; not just when they feel like, but every day.
I think the biggest lesson i’ve learnt from dating is the minute you’re confused about how they feel for you, you should just leave. You should only be confused about small things like what birthday gift you should get them, not if they even like you or want to be with you.
At the end of the day, i know i'm a good woman. I'm far from perfect, and i'll never pretend to be. But my heart is genuine, my intentions are sincere, and when i love, i give it everything i've got. Because of that.... I know my worth. I always have, and i always will.
I think one of the hardest things about life is realizing that being a good person doesn't always protect you from disappointment.
You can have pure intentions, care deeply, stay loyal, and still get hurt by people you never imagined would change on you.
please stop sending long paragraphs to men after they hurt you. They don't care, and nothing you write will create remorse in someone who has none. Take back your dignity and walk away. Silence is always the most powerful response.
please stop sending long paragraphs to men after they hurt you. They don't care, and nothing you write will create remorse in someone who has none. Take back your dignity and walk away. Silence is always the most powerful response.
You didn't lose them
You lost a fantasy
The texts.
The routine
The future in your head
None of it was real
You cried for a ghost
You made yourself
Pull the trigger if you can
the embarrassment that comes after loving someone wholeheartedly not knowing that they're busy with someone else and there are people who know about it.
Self-love is not waiting until you feel strong to choose yourself. Sometimes you choose yourself while shaking. Sometimes you leave while still attached. Sometimes courage feels like grief before it feels like freedom.