No player has been involved in more shots during a game at the 2026 FIFA World Cup than Mohamed Salah has versus New Zealand today (10 - 5 shots, 5 chances created).
Accountability is very difficult for avoidants.
This is due to a core wound of shame. Taking accountability is the emotional equivalent of confirming their shame and "defectiveness". This is why they often gaslight and blame you for their behaviors. If it's your fault, they don't have to self reflect and take accountability, which means they avoid facing their own inner shame.
if you're scared to do something but think about it often, it's probably the exact thing you need to do to unlock the next chapter in your life. embrace the fear, welcome the change, and go after what you want with full force