i feel like singlets inflate the issue of people pretending to be systems sooo much. not only is it bizarre to be obsessed with spotting people who are "faking" a disorder, especially one you don't have; but also in my time of being in system community spaces, i've met more–
I hope undiagnosed systems who worry about being believed know that their focus should be on symptom management and not getting a diagnosis, because being diagnosed does absolutely nothing in terms of believability. Ableists don’t care they’ll just say you’re lying about that too