Don't go into job interviews with a script. "I am have a strong work ethic, can work independently and in a team, blah, blah, blah". Be ready to give honest and genuine answers that tell your story.
Live in the present moment. That is, don't obsess over what has happened in the past or lose yourself in visions of the future. Focus on what is right here, right in front of you, today. Make the most of it, and enjoy yourself.
7 Stoic DON’Ts:
1. Don’t be overheard complaining...even to yourself
2. Don’t speak more than you listen
3. Don’t tie your identity to your possessions
4. Don’t compare yourself to others
5. Don’t suffer imagined troubles
6. Don't judge others
7. Don’t be all about business
"Is this in my control?" is one of my favorite questions to ask myself. More recently, "Does this actually matter?" has been a favorite. Life is busy and there is no time to waste on nonsense.
7 questions that can change your life:
1. Is this in my control?
2. What am I missing by choosing to worry or be afraid?
3. Am I doing my job?
4. Who is this for?
5. Does this actually matter?
6. What does my ideal day look like?
7. Who do I spend time with?
"In omnibus excelsior" is a phrase I was taught in 9th grade.
It essentially means striving for excellence or aiming higher in all aspects or endeavors. It is a commitment to excellence and continuous improvement in all areas of life or work.
It lives in my head rent free.
Be grateful, but if you want more, you cannot allow yourself to be complacent.
"Complacency is the enemy of success. We cannot be content with what we have if we want to achieve greatness"
Be a little bit better. Every. Single. Day.
The answer is you.
Self-experimentation
Self-education
Self-reflection
Self-mastery
Self-reliance
Self-sustenance
Self-development
If you can learn, test, pursue, overcome, persist, iterate, and take absolute responsibility for the outcome of your life – you become free.
The hallmark of an open mind is refusing to let your ideas become your identity.
If you define yourself by your opinions, questioning them is a threat to your integrity.
If you see yourself as a curious person or a lifelong learner, changing your mind is a moment of growth.
“Comedy is the best way to teach about human behavior. George Carlin, Chris Rock, and Jerry Seinfeld have done more to enlighten others than 99.9% of psychology PhDs.” — @morganhousel