Nexo Beats is a Ugandan Music Producer known by working with great talents like A pass, Vyper ranking, Wilson Bugembe, Fik Fameica, Dj shiru, Cosign,more
And to women with platforms, myself included, we carry a responsibility.
Before we sit down to teach young women about marriage, choosing a husband, raising children, or what a man should and shouldn’t be, sometimes the first thing we need to do is heal.
Seek therapy. Seek God. Do the inner work. Confront what hurt you. Because if we don’t heal from what we experienced, there is a danger that we begin teaching from our wounds instead of from wisdom.
Some of us have endured betrayal, abandonment, difficult marriages, childhood trauma, financial hardship and relationships that completely changed the way we see men and love. Those experiences are real, but our pain should not automatically become the blueprint we hand to the next generation.
Young women are listening to us.
They shouldn’t inherit our fears.
They shouldn’t inherit our bitterness.
They shouldn’t be taught that money equals character, or that every relationship must be approached through the disappointments we experienced.
Our responsibility as women who came before them is to give them something healthier.
Heal first. Then advise.
There is absolutely nothing shameful about therapy. There is wisdom in recognizing that some wounds require more than pretending we have moved on.
And when we finally speak, let it come from healing, discernment, experience and truth,not simply from the parts of us that are still hurting.
The next generation deserves our wisdom, not our wounds.
Byebyo 📌