@badgal_zaee@theshawnyboy But also yes, that’s very southern. All the northern parents I’ve been around are so cold and distant which is the opposite of what I grew up around where family is the end all be all
@badgal_zaee@theshawnyboy I hear you. I just think we’re speaking from different experiences. I think the post and I are talking about being purposefully excluded which hurts a lot. Especially from someone who is supposed to love you and want to spend all their time with you if they can
@harmonyjayla It’s just about knowing where to look. Any city that has a construction industry has a Mexican or Latina wife somewhere cooking bomb ass food. You just need connections or the knowledge
@badgal_zaee@theshawnyboy And Ive done months and months solo, but it was always better when I had someone there to experience it with. Being alone is nice but community is even better. I think American individualism is just way too prominent now. But thats also what my masters is in so ofc I’m passionate
@badgal_zaee@theshawnyboy No I’m just a normal person who knows how to experience life on my own right now. When it comes to a long time partner you’re choosing to settle down with them. If that’s not your idea of a relationship then I get it though. Just now the way I was raised