no, neither of us have it worse or better than the other— objectively— because the transgender/transsexual experience is Deeply nuanced and contextual, and varies deeply between individuals.
TW and TM alike deserve to be uplifted, listened to, and respected on equal terms.
the only people who love being trans are the non-dysphoric non-transitioning posers who only view trans as some sort of “revolutionary freedom of expression” instead of a medical/psychological condition
do you really expect them not to get angry and stay silent, when many of these so-called "level 100 woke" people consistently portray trans women as nothing more than men with pronounced masculine features wearing dresses, while believing they are doing something nice for them?
I find it misogynistic how ftms (or just any trans afab) are treated like "fake transgenders" and get called shit like pooner and theyfab while mtfs are always taken seriously. There's whole accounts dedicated to mocking afab trans people, why aren't women allowed to transition?
i dont view my trans-ness as queer, even remotely. maybe thats where some of the schism in communication is coming from.
i dont know why people seem to think what im saying is a personal attack on them though.