@NBless42682980@CityPowerJhb This is going to be the fourth day without electricity and some of us work from home. We are going downhill at this point.
@Nduku_ZA@Mpumi_Moments Itโs a mental case in most situations Nduku because people donโt educate themselves about these issues . Abusers , murderers and rapists donโt just develop as adults. These are things that come about in early childhood.
@Nduku_ZA@Mpumi_Moments You make a valid point and I think you could have phrased it better for educational purposes but do understand that victims get groomed by their abusers and it never happens over night, some victims self harm by staying due to history of abuse.
@Nduku_ZA@Mpumi_Moments You can add your concrete personality traits on the list that women should supposedly look out for in a good man and while you are at it, do more research on the murder stories you have come across and tell me if those men didnโt seem like good people.
@Nduku_ZA@Mpumi_Moments Check, He comes from an affluent family and shows no signs of violence, check he goes to church and is self -disciplined, check he walked away when we had multiple arguments but that same man was found guilty for murder or rape.
@Nduku_ZA@Mpumi_Moments What the women under your comment section are saying is that comments like yours show how people can easily become enablers of such behaviour because from you perspective, murderers and rapists can easily be spotted and women willingly dig their own graves.
@Nduku_ZA@Mpumi_Moments I want to say I understand where you are coming from because this could be merely based on your own experiences but what about the top achievers at school or work that commit hernias acts behind closed doors.
@Nduku_ZA@Mpumi_Moments The men who are held in high statures in their communities for their outstanding behaviour, the boy who could never hurt a fly because he is quite and would never take part in any insidious acts.