do you ever sit back and realize you're not anybody's favorite person, you're just kinda there and then you get the sudden urge to distance yourself from everyone and chill alone
A therapist said that sometimes being a loner is a trauma response. You’re so use to people you love not showing up for you or walking away or you may have grown up in a toxic environment. That the only one you could depend on was YOU! So you naturally feel safe when you’re alone
A girl on tik tok just said "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
I think I just articulated something that I've been trying to get out for years—just now, I was telling a friend about what I've been going through, and he said "but I ain't worried about you. You got this."
I paused, and said, "....worry about me a little bit."
@PinkRangerLB Reminds me of how during Trump my mom would talk about how people shouldn’t get food stamps and then I reminded her how from like 2008/2009-2011/2012 she relies heavily on food stamps to feed her 6 kids after her second husband left. Apparently that was different 🙄
Kinda annoyed Sex and the City ended with Big saying he loved her and them being a couple. The out of nowhere change of character for Big and the “happily ever after” ending is the reason most girls have that one situationship that they held on to for way too long #satc
To my sister’s friend who shared my tweet with her causing me to be attacked for having my feelings, thank you for giving me another look at how my family will never truly care for me
I’ve come to realize that my dad was ok with just doing the bare minimum to care for me. I guess some people just aren’t capable of truly caring for children that aren’t fully theirs…
Today’s the anniversary of my “dad” passing. After finding out last year that he may not be my biological father, a lot of my relationship with him has started to make sense.
And lastly it explains how I don’t have any fond memories of just him and I like all my living siblings had with him. How I always felt uneasy around him and didn’t know why.