Breakups hurt. You know what REALLY fucking hurts? Trying to”make it work” with someone who has PROVEN to you TIME AND TIME AGAIN that they do not give a fuck about your feelings. THAT hurts
No amount of chemistry can ever make up for the anxiety that comes from being with someone who’s emotionally inconsistent, unkind, or misaligned with your core values.
If you want to be evil, be evil with your chest. The problem is too many of you want to be perceived as good people even when you’re not. Embrace your wickedness please.
Reconciliation requires two people telling the truth.. not one person doing emotional cartwheels while the other hides behind denial.
You can’t rebuild trust with someone who refuses to name their part.
adulting has taught me that a lot of grown people simply cannot handle hard conversations, accountability or emotional depth. and the beautiful thing is i don’t have to tolerate that. i can absolutely walk away and leave them right where they are.
Never borrow shame from the past. You are not that person anymore and you simply didn't know better. No reason to beat yourself up for it. All you can do is actually do better.