Don't ask introverts "why can't you make a decision right now". They just can't. That's not how they operate. They like to take their time. Think and reflect and contemplate. Draw the pros & cons. The in & outs. Map out everything mentally. If you rush it, it's a no. Be patient.
Don't subscribe to other people's definition of "fun".
Fun doesn't have to mean drinking, partying, and socializing.
Fun can be a night alone, getting lost in a book, a deep conversation, a walk, creating art, playing music, or doing your work.
Fun is yours; You define it.
Introverts drain too fast. That's why they don't connect with everybody. They want to. But they need time. To observe. To assess. To believe. Temporary is just not their thing. They're not shy or selfish. They want someone that matters. That feels true to their soul. That's all.
Introverts are not anti-social, they're selective. They want depth. They want trust. They want soul vibe. They wanna connect with you mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. They may seem a bit shy & closed off. But trust me, all they want is coziness over craziness.
Introverts don't revenge. They're too softhearted. When they trust you, they hold back nothing. Nothing at all. They're loving, caring, and completely vulnerable. They're all heart & soul. And if you ever break their heart, trust me, they don't revenge. They just go silent.