Nikz

Island Girl| Nature Lover| Sustainable Community Capacity Development| Ecotourism| Agritourism| Creative #PK2PB

[God IS ☥ @777_oya]

People think they’ve learned and know you, when all they’ve done is touched the surface.

[Nikz @nicolehjackman]

We might fail to listen to it but our intuition never fails

[Michael Todd @iammiketodd]

What you say, creates what you see.

[Michael Todd @iammiketodd]

Your feelings matter, they just can't rule you.

[Michael Todd @iammiketodd]

Watch your words while you're waiting.

[مريم حسنا @Maryamhasnaa]

You can only nurture people to the extent that they can actually receive nurturing.

[مريم حسنا @Maryamhasnaa]

Stop confusing setting the bar low for people with having compassion for where they are. Compassion doesn’t feel like pity.

[مريم حسنا @Maryamhasnaa]

Continue to cultivate compassion for your own weaknesses.

[Rastafari Movement @RastafariM]

You are currently living at least one of the prayers you used to pray.

[Rastafari Movement @RastafariM]

Don't go through life, Grow through life.

[مريم حسنا @Maryamhasnaa]

I am always looking at energy exchange and subtle dynamics at play. One thing to consider, you can’t influence someone else or change their mind by pushing your energy into their space. We have seen it. It doesn’t work. And yet in conversations this is the strategy most will use.

[مريم حسنا @Maryamhasnaa]

Don’t ever go toe to toe with someone who needs to win.

Stay grounded, clear, engaged and maintain boundaries.

Listen, reflect and respond but don’t match them, don’t take on their energy and don’t make their emotions your problem.

Persist, but without going into resistance

[مريم حسنا @Maryamhasnaa]

If you step back, ask, who is requiring this of me, you will see it’s only yourself. Others may come and mirror that need back to you but when you’re clear the hook won’t take. Then if you decide to support others in understanding you it will be from generosity and not obligation

[مريم حسنا @Maryamhasnaa]

It’s actually not your job to make sure people understand you.

[مريم حسنا @Maryamhasnaa]

Many of us are healing our relationship with the patterns of needing to be accepted in order to feel safe.

This adaptive strategy was needed in childhood to survive but this particular game is losing its attraction.

[مريم حسنا @Maryamhasnaa]

“What is the essence of trauma?
The essence of trauma is that someone was using you for their own purpose. You were hurt because someone else needed you to do something for them so they could feel better”

— Dr. Gabor Mate
Compassion Fatigue event at New Earth Mystery School.

[مريم حسنا @Maryamhasnaa]

Make sure you know how to discern the difference between someone genuinely wanting you and someone just wanting to be fed by your energy, focus, love and attention.

[مريم حسنا @Maryamhasnaa]

People love to say not everyone deserves access to their energy. But then turn around and give those same people their energy by constantly thinking about them, replaying past situations, mentally rehearsing conversations and getting pulled into arguments.

[مريم حسنا @Maryamhasnaa]

You think that in order to manifest more abundance you need to work harder when what you really need to do is clear those blocks to receiving. It will feel uncomfortable at first to practice this but that’s how you know it’s deep work.

[مريم حسنا @Maryamhasnaa]

Selflessness that comes from being meek, passive and more concerned with being a servant than completing your own purpose it may sound noble but it’s self sabotage. Make sure your good nature doesn’t have you doing more than your share of work and neglecting your own souls path.