It’s sad when you think back on moments where people knew exactly how much their actions would hurt you and still did it anyway. The ease with which some people can be intentionally cruel will always be unsettling.
one thing... I CAN NOT STAND.... is being ignored. if you’re busy, say so. if you’re not in the mood to talk, say so. if you’re done with me, SAY SO. COMMUNICATE.
my coping mechanism is self isolation. i go silent when everything feels too much. i crave solitude, yet deep down i’m hoping someone notices my absence
It’s crazy how love can turn so cold. Isn’t it funny how after a breakup, true colors show? One of you lies in bed, can’t eat, can’t even fake a smile, replaying every moment, while the other moves on like it meant nothing.
CHEATING ISN’T JUST SLEEPING with someone else, it’s also giving someone else the attention that should be for your partner, deleting messages so they won’t see them, flirting and calling it “harmless,” hiding your relationship in public while acting single in private, keeping options open while expecting commitment, being emotionally unavailable seeking validation elsewhere, and gaslighting your partner when they call out the disrespect. Loyalty is more than just physical, it’s emotional too.