genuine question, how do ppl go thru this much of a drastic transformation where they’re completely unrecognisable n not end up spiralling/having a complete identity crisis ? like imagine looking at urself in the mirror n it’s u but not u at the same time ? i’d fully lose my mind
ur not lazy u just need to rest ur small beautiful little head most hours of the day bc ur soooo tiny and small and life is so big and hard and it’s ok
this makes me really sad to see. especially as i make amends with my body and start to understand it’s consciousness and the way it speaks to me.
the body loves you so much, it really is doing it’s best for you and every time your heart pumps it’s a love letter from the consciousness of your body, who has decided to do everything it can to keep you alive so that you may have a vehicle to experience life.
the body is also YOU. a part of you. it is not the mind so it doesn’t have language to convey what it needs, it has a childlike innocence and understanding that is quite elegant but very simple. when it hears you and sees you preferring other bodies and wishing parts of it away or hurting it because you don’t like the way it looks or functions, the body is pained and bewildered and it holds on to that.
you cannot dream of another body. you are all your body dreams of.
some individuals with autism refer to their emotions as concepts as a means to understand them which is cool. other neurodivergent individuals personally feel the need to intellectualize emotions as a means to understand. separating thoughts from emotions is a neurodivergent trait. attempting to find logic and rational in one’s emotional response is a neurodivergent trait. let’s move away from gendering neurodivergent traits. it’s not just something men do. it’s something all people have the potential to do. there’s nothing wrong with everyone processing things differently and at different rates.
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When y’all drive like this do y’all ever consider how many other ppl SWORE they could drive & ended up being the reason somebody lost their life? Do y’all consider ppl with babies in the car? Like I’m genuinely curious.
ross trying to fuck his cousin, ross dating his teen student, ross filming him & rachel having sex without telling her, ross being homophobic towards the male nanny, ross not letting his son play with dolls, ross fucking someone else after him and rachel had an argument,