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occasionally accurate da pitt takes

[asheater @nicsaudade]

heather buying cups into robby’s apartment sends him into rage (he doesn’t show it) cause it makes their relationship serious and scares the shit out of him. langdon accidentally breaking one sends him into rage (he does show it) (a little) cause it’s all he has left of her

[asheater @nicsaudade]

@JENNYLEHMAN1015 maybe!!

[asheater @nicsaudade]

today i got brave and watched 8 min of the pitt! tomorrow? who knows

[asheater @nicsaudade]

happy bisexual visibility month

[asheater @nicsaudade]

oh i know langdon’s bpm went through the roof as soon as he heard robby’s voice and he probably didn’t breathe the whole time either

[asheater @nicsaudade]

you already know who

[detective barbie @neopetOrgy]

My kink is being told I asked a good question

[asheater @nicsaudade]

@Ozmourn how is it for you? i’ve started it recently not sure abt the results yet

[asheater @nicsaudade]

emdr session today was a blast i now remember more traumatizing shit and want to scream

[asheater @nicsaudade]

@lilslikesmedia 🫂

[asheater @nicsaudade]

@b1rdforbrains ah you evil 😈

[asheater @nicsaudade]

went to the collage club and sublimated all of it hell yea art saves lives once again

[asheater @nicsaudade]

emdr session today was a blast i now remember more traumatizing shit and want to scream

[asheater @nicsaudade]

@JENNYLEHMAN1015 🫂

[asheater @nicsaudade]

@nabakovienne consent was brought up here and i agree i worded it poorly based on that. doesn’t change the fact that sexual preferences esp when it comes to harmful practices can be changed with therapu and understanding of trauma

[asheater @nicsaudade]

my hot take is that certain kinks shouldn’t be practiced at all, and instead you and your partner should look into why you want to hurt/get hurt (usually it’s learned behavior, consuming porn/nsfw content, trauma response, desperate need in aftercare, unprocessed anger)

[cassie-nyan @muttgirlfriend]

my unironic 'hot' take is certain kinks can only be safely practiced when it is only two women involved..

[asheater @nicsaudade]

@nabakovienne i didn’t say sex with kink is not consensual, but i agree, i dont think we can have a productive conversation on this, since you’re twisting what i’m saying to fit the "kinkshaming!1!!" narrative

[asheater @nicsaudade]

muting this cause i dont like it when people read with their asses and then come to argue with something i haven’t said

[asheater @nicsaudade]

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[asheater @nicsaudade]

@nabakovienne it’s not about making sense to me. it’s about harm being done to the psyche of people involved. i literally cannot in any way affect the way other people have sex and im only stating things for some people to read and critically think

[asheater @nicsaudade]

@nabakovienne changing sexual preferences and unlearning harmful practices and learning how to enjoy consensual sex is possible and it’s harmful to say otherwise

[asheater @nicsaudade]

@nabakovienne i completely understand where you’re coming from. also

[asheater @nicsaudade]

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