Serious talk. Dapat pasangan yg jaga ibadah dia sendiri & always remind pasal solat one of truly blessings from Allah. Kadang tengok isteri dia lambat-lambat solat dia terus ambik sejadah bentang. “Jom jemaah cepat.”
Jenis i kalau terasa or sedih ke apa dengan orang, i always choose to remain silent. Diam bukan sebab takut. Bukan sengaja nak silent treatment ke/avoid communication ke. Nope. I was taking my time, processing. You'll realize silence is more important than proving a point.
Dia camni tau…
Marriage is the ending of a new beginning.
Rasa takleh ubah diri? Takyah kawin.
Rasa takleh tinggal kawan? Takyah kawin.
Come on, guys. Remember why you marry her. She’s your choice. Not your option.
Isteri sanggup tinggalkan family sebab nak duduk dengan kita.
Please jangan seksa isteri macam ni. Biarlah orang kata kita takut bini ke apa. Isteri ni takde orang lain dah. Dia ada kita je.
Nak dilayan macam raja? Layan la isteri macam permaisuri. Susah ke? Ye, susah. Itulah yang isteri rasa.
Demand nak isteri itu ini, surirumah, layan suami je 24 jam. Tapi kita sendiri susah nak jaga hati isteri.
Jangan cakap “before kawin aku gini, wife pun tahu”. Stop. It’s in the past. You don’t live there anymore. Come on.
Kalau kawan ada waktu susah senang kau, kawin la ngan kawan tu. Settle.
Kawan kau lelaki? Ha takyah pikir kawin lagi. Jangan seksa isteri.
Pagi-pagi dah menyirap darah. Ceritanya, my dad was diagnosed with cancer recently and his heart function is only 21% left. Tetiba makcik yg tak pernah keep in touch nak mai melawat dr KL ke Kelantan sefamily nak minta my dad transfer harta kat dia. The audacity of this bitch🤬