The highest form of love is consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. Pays attention to detail. Holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. In any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you.
@Kalivo5Tom@DrDebraSoh Is it about numbers for you? So a woman who sleeps with 1 man a million times vs a woman who SAFELY sleeps with 100 men?
Regardless, apply that energy to men...the man better also be virgin-ish?
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@zxenergyy @NigeriaStories Or they should pay them what they're worth. They don't even think Nigerians are humans. Bring in Aso Rock is just being tone deaf to the reality of Nigerians 😡😡
It is with great regret that I have just been told I will not be competing in the 100 meters at this Olympic Games. I qualified, but those with the AFN and NOC failed to enter me. I have worked for 4 years to earn this opportunity. For what?
@suwa_lee@Sports_Doctor2 We can't fix this problem at the Senate. This is a systemic issue. It's a pervasive issue in Nigeria. Many men are raised that way. We need to address this issue from the grassroots!
@emeksipo2 @Sports_Doctor2 Wow! So classy! Any opportunity to insult or put women down, men like you don't hesitate at all. You aren't so different from the men in the Senate who look down on female politicians. You're part of the problem!
@samuche83@Sports_Doctor2 They can do whatever they want. You can't dictate or command feminists to move where or do what you want them to!
Maybe there aren't enough feminists to tackle Nigerian issues. & That is the issue you should be talking about, not shaming those who are trying their best to help!
You see Senator Ireti of the FCT and Senator Natasha representing Kogi Central amongst other female senators, they’re going through it in the senate house, they’re being looked down on and disrespected always!!!
I don’t know if it’s because they’re women or what, the way they’re always talked down on and their points dismissed with a wave of hand is really annoying and has to stop!!!
"Nothing! Nothing! I have done nothing! Just moving to work!", says Innocent Mukwaya, a Ugandan walking to work arrested by police along the Said Barre Avenue near Parliament in Kampala. 🇺🇬
Uganda’s young people-led #March2Parliament protests that started on social media seek to end state corruption and human rights abuses.
I always sound like a conspiracy theorist when I say this but things are not built how they used to be, i.e., made to last, made to be functional, etc., because of capitalism.
Don't mean this personally at all as I'm sure the parents in question are lovely people. And I certainly wouldn't want something like this to happen to my parents.
But in the grand scheme of things, I see a positive to a "whole retired ambassador" being denied a visa.
For too long, Nigeria's upper classes have believed they can be immune from what the rest of society goes through - the poverty, the humiliations, the indignities - as long as their personal status is high.
As long as they remain rich, as long as they remain "somebodies."
Then when they go abroad, people will "know the difference" between them and the Nigerian "masses." That they will be treated as some sort of global upper class citizenry, as opposed to "ordinary" Nigerians.
This belief has meant there has been very little national solidarity in Nigeria, the idea all Nigerians are on the same boat and share a common fate.
The idea that, as Peter Obi once said, "If you're from a poor country, you're poor, no matter how rich you are."
The idea that Nigeria must work for everyone for anyone to be proud to be a Nigerian.
Experiences like this, which I believe will increase in coming years due to 🇳🇬's falling GDP per capita and thus national status in a capitalist world plus rising xenophobia in West, may well rob Nigeria's upper classes of the illusion that they can always expect different treatment from that meted out to the "Nigerian masses" when abroad.
And that would be a good thing.
It would mean that perhaps they may wake up to the reality that citizens of a failed nation always run the risk of being condescended to in successful nations, no matter their personal position or achievements.
I'm not saying it is good people in successful nations act this way (I wish they didn't), but it is the way our world works. It is the way humans act in groups.
If Nigeria's upper classes realize they might not be spared the indignities other Nigerians face abroad, then perhaps they will start working more pro-actively towards making Nigeria a successful country whose citizens are generally treated well everywhere in the world, irrespective whether they're VIPs or "ordinary" people.
Again, this has nothing to do with the particular couple in question but with a phenomenon I see as one of the main reasons for Nigeria's downfall - the overwhelming triumph of Nigerian classism over Nigerian nationalism. This has weakened Nigeria incredibly.
So, for me, the more often Nigeria's upper classes are reminded that they are not immune from the indignities of coming from a failed country, the better the chances (true) Nigerian nationalism starts gaining traction over Nigerian classism. Either everybody wins or nobody wins.