i love that feeling when you talk stuff out with someone and u both become aware that neither of u were wrong. you just saw the scenario differently. talking really should be about seeing things from both perspectives, rather than the need to be right.
maturity is realizing that’s overplaying your role in people’s life to prove your loyalty is only proving how less you value yourself. deal with people how they deal with you. rarely, barely, and accordingly.
female rage is how considerate you were in situations where you weren’t even considered. it’s how you sacrificed your own needs and wants to make someone else happy. when you slide into “too nice” territory, you undergo resentment and frustration