Psychology says some people avoid socializing not because they hate people, but because they can read them too well. They walk into a room and immediately sense the fake laughs, the hidden agendas, the performances. Their nervous system doesn't misread the signal, it just refuses to ignore it. Small talk feels like a tax they didn't agree to pay. Forced smiles cost them energy that takes hours to recover. They're not broken. They're calibrated differently. They don't avoid people. They avoid emotional labor that leads nowhere. When they do connect, it's deep, intentional, real. No masks. No games. Fewer friends doesn't mean loneliness. It means higher standards. That's not antisocial behavior. That's emotional intelligence.
NEVER TRUST A MAN WHO gets upset over your reactions to his actions. You got mad because of what he did, and now he's mad because you reacted. Then he tries to gaslight you by saying you're always arguing or creating negativity. No, that's MANIPULATION. That's narcissistic behavior. You don't get to hurt people and then play the VICTIM when they call you out.
İyi bir insanmış gibi davranan, ama aslında narsist olan, kendi arzuları uğruna insanların ruh sağlığını bozan bencil bir yalancıdan daha çok nefret ettiğim bir şey yok.
girls will survive abuse, heartbreak, grief, and unspeakable tragedies and still move through the world with kindness and compassion, but one minor inconvenience in a man's childhood and he spends the rest of his life terrorizing and poisoning everyone around him
ordan oraya savrulmaların bittiğinde umarım bir kapının eşiğine denk gelirsin ve seni ne içeriye alırlar ne de tam dışarda bırakırlar. çünkü bana yaptığın tam olarak buydu.