sometimes you try to give someone what they never had… patience… softness… real love… and then you slowly realize why they never had it in the first place. some people don’t know how to hold something healthy without trying to break it.
In recovery, doing only the steps you like is still acting out. Meetings without honesty, awareness without accountability, and insight without amends are just ways to feel “in recovery” while staying the same. If you skip the hard steps — inventory, disclosure, making amends —
People love to say they need space, when what they really wanted was to ESCAPE ACCOUNTABILITY. You don’t get to mistreat someone and then vanish as if distance erases impact.
Hurting someone and then refusing to communicate isn’t protecting your peace, it’s avoiding responsibility. Silence isn’t healing when you’re the one who caused the damage; it’s just hoping the problem disappears so you don’t have to face what you did.
@libriscent I’m tired of taking the blame. I did not do anything to deserve dishonesty and disloyalty… then years later, I am told I’m not loving the way they need. It’s real hard to hear how I’m the problem but never hear the I’m sorry I feel like I need
The killing of Alex Pretti is a heartbreaking tragedy. It should also be a wake-up call to every American, regardless of party, that many of our core values as a nation are increasingly under assault.
This is Alex Pretti, the man the Trump admin and Trump supporters call a "domestic terrorist."
Here Pretti is reading the final honors, honoring a soldier who has passed away at the hospital he was a nurse at.
Stop believing Trump's propaganda. He is lying to you! WAKE UP!