I hate a man who lies about who he's fucking/cheating & side chick culture. It's not just humiliating, it's gross. Don't play on people's emotions, we all are trying to heal & you're out here interrupting the grind.
Ok it's not just what you said though.. it's how you said it. It's when you said it. But it's also the insults & childish put downs instead of problem solving and conversation.