When you start to see shit for what it truly is, your mind starts to finally put things into perspective. Shit was never for you to begin with. Stop stressing. Let shit flow.
They weren't lying when they said you wake up one day and just don't care anymore. No warning, no dramatic shift, just a quiet, almost peaceful detachment.
can't be submissive to a man that doesn't make you feel safe enough to be you. you're constantly in defense mode, your energy is withdrawn, your mind is anxious about what will happen next. there's no compliant heart in that environment, you just grow more indifferent with time
girl to girl, never be comfortable with lack. lack of love, lack of peace, lack of excellence, lack of effort, lack of quality in your life. want better, do better, expect better
when i feel unheard, i just stop speaking. it's not the healthiest trait but i rather reserve my energy for conversations with people who actively listen to me
Quickest way to get me to lose interest is starting a convo you can’t finish. I believe in text etiquette- instead of taking 20 hours to respond, just let me know you’re busy out of respect for me and my time. Ppl will argue with me over this but idgaf. If you care, you show it.
i CANNOT fuck with people who do NOT understand it’s the PRINCIPLE of things. it’s not what you did. it’s how you did it. and what makes it worse is knowing if roles were reversed, you’d lose your mind