Everyone wants a good woman. Until they realize that good women come with standards, priorities and boundaries. Now suddenly she's difficult, controlling, cold and "doing too much."
I thought our generation was going to be better , I thought we were going to do better than the generations before us.
Didn’t know I was in for a rude awakening
I’ve seen a lot of these takes, and it’s important to understand that beyond age, there’s also a power dynamic at play.
A sexual relationship between a teacher and a student is wrong not only because of age, but because of the position of authority involved.
Even in workplaces, relationships between people in unequal positions or even colleagues often violate policy for this very reason, because power can influence consent, decision-making, and consequences.
This issue has so many layers, but we seem far more willing to scrutinize children or subordinates than the adults who hold the power and SHOULD KNOW BETTER.
If we want to have a separate conversation about minors, consent laws, or sexual activity among young people, that’s fine. But for now, let’s not lose sight of a simple principle: those entrusted with authority have a greater responsibility to act appropriately.
People keep saying, "Sometimes students offer themselves for grades."
Okay... and?
So because a student offers, the teacher is suddenly relieved of all responsibility? The adult becomes the victim? The person entrusted with authority, discipline, guidance, and moral instruction suddenly forgets right from wrong?
A teacher is not a random person on the street. A teacher holds power. A teacher controls grades, recommendations, opportunities, and sometimes a student's entire future.
If a student offers themselves and you accept, what exactly are you teaching? Integrity? Discipline? Respect? Accountability?
You stand in front of a classroom preaching values, then sneak behind closed doors to exploit the very people you're supposed to protect.
The excuse that "the student wanted it" is pathetic. Children and young people make poor decisions every day. That's precisely why adults are expected to know better.
The real question isn't why a student offered.
The real question is: Why did the teacher take it?
If your morals collapse because a student flirted, then you have no business being a teacher. You're not an educator. You're a predator hiding behind a profession that society trusted you to uphold.
My block button is working overtime today.
I can’t deal with nonsense for the rest of the day, let alone in the near future.
Of course some “boys” will rush to defend that girl on the podcast why? Because they’re the same ones involved with these underage girls in schools.
And while we are on the topic of blaming victims, many of you women need to unlearn and deconstruct the internalized misogyny that we were all brought up with, that still lives in you. The inherent need to immediately point your fingers on your fellow gender and blame them..
Some of you think people owe you respect because you're men. To hell with your bs if you don't have sense. Talking about is that how a lady talks. Don't pmo. Tf!
GES forbids teacher students relationships therefore seeing to it that teachers make sure they don’t happen and you’re telling me to tell the CHILDREN who are in the CARE of the TEACHER to act right? Are you stupid? How do some of you think?
There can never be consensual sex between a teacher and a student.
There can never be consensual sex between a teacher and a student.
There can never be consensual sex between a teacher and a student.
There can never be consensual sex between a teacher and a student.
This should never be up for debate.
The fact that not everyone in SHS is a minor doesn’t change the ethical issue. Teachers should never pursue romantic or sexual relationships with their students. The power imbalance makes genuine consent questionable and undermines the trust placed in educators. Hope this helps
Bro that convo is literally predator vs prey and people are deadass choosing the side of the predator.
Makes you wonder if they are predators too, both men and women.