You can love a person the right way, be gentle with them, patient, understanding, nurturing etc. They will still shit on you HARD! Act like you were the bare minimum, when you were at a point the light of their life. The person they claim they needed.. guess that was the red flag
Something about me just can’t give sympathy to a grown ass man, especially when I’ve been EVERYTHING plus more. Nope not anymore, get professional help.