The truth is, Black women who happily date are always going to confuse & anger people. No one envisioned a life of choice for us, especially when it comes to experiencing love/care in multiple ways from different people. We were only ever supposed to “be happy with what we get”
Dating someone who understands you're a work in progress but also still adores you for the absolute fucking masterpiece that you already are >>>
Level up so hard that people have to get to know you again. It's time to stop pretending that you're this average, small person. You've got big work to do. Don't shrink yourself to make others comfortable. Do find & surround yourself with those who encourage you to keep growing.