I tell my kids all the time to be grateful bc a lot of kids don’t have the things y’all have & I work my ass off to make sure they have the things that they need.
the longer i go without something, the more i'm okay with never having it again. and once i detach from someone or something completely, reconnection with me becomes impossible because i know what it took for me to finally let go. once i'm done, i'm done.