I will never reconcile with anyone who deliberately went out their way to sabotage or hurt me in anyway. Family, friends, associates, whoever. Once you show me who you are, I can’t unsee it.
I think people really fail to comprehend how focused I am on me. I do not be concerned with nobody else and I don’t be interested in what other people have going on. I wake up and think about me all day.
Also you’re a bird if you participate in conversations with men about other women. Once a man start speaking about a woman to me I always hit them with the “don’t do that cause you was dealing with her.”
In order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. Not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you.
People hear you say you’re passionate and only think about the positive aspects of passion. I’m passionate in love but I’m also passionate in anger, sadness, disgust and everything else I feel.
Reality is some people just don’t align & this was my last year letting my empathy for people keep me attached to what my discernment already rejected.