Been fighting for my life since February but people just see me having a ball. That’s because I believe you can be going through a hard time and still appreciate all that you do have.
The black magic of people convincing you that you’re not who you know yourself to be is being lifted and sent back to the sender. You are exactly who you believe yourself to be, and no magic, spells, or projections can change that. Never allow someone else’s perception of you to override your own knowing. Your identity, your power, and your worth are not theirs to define. Stand firm in who you are!
I really was 15 years old and said “half you grown hoes got the nerves to say I’m nasty cause if I’m nasty then bitch you childish if you ask me” like what the fuck 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
My dad sent me my chore list from when I was a kid.. this shit started at 8 years old… my pop was the coolest man on earth but he had hella structure & rules in the house
that girl that commented “it only has to make sense to me” ate that shit up sm bc I live by that now like no it literally only has to make sense to me & me only
A regulated nervous system still gets angry.
A regulated nervous system still feels fear.
A regulated nervous system still feels rage.
A regulated nervous system still gets sad.
A regulated nervous is a biological state of safety.
A regulated nervous system is NOT a flatline of endless “calm”. It is the capacity to experience the full, vibrant, & sometimes messy spectrum of human emotions without getting permanently stuck in them.
I’ve realized that not every friendship ends because of an argument or betrayal. Sometimes you just start paying attention to the dynamics and realize this isn’t a connection you want to continue maintaining. No hard feelings, just different expectations of friendship.