@tboseZA He was supposed to marry her or put his wishes in a will in writing, you did what you felt was right. Its done nothing you can do to change it.
@tboseZA@KBNdlovu_21 Let him go , love is not enough for marriage, unfortunately in African culture you don't marry your husband alone,2 families marry.find someone who also don't follow African traditions.
@tboseZA You are chosing to die alone inside. Speak to you husband and ask him what he means by not signing up for this, as it does not make sense . 2 go back to your parents and ask for help and tell them what your husband said. Simple
@tboseZA Ypu don't love your wife enough shem, you are selfish. So you would rather see her stressed and unhappy ๐ then assit her to find alternative employment ,in order for you to keep your selfish lifestyle. But you can't stop her from quiting
@tboseZA Yes something is wrong with you. You should direct the anger or resentment to you hubby,he is the one who cheated and hurt you.not the child,grow up maan.
@tboseZA Your blindspot was allowing your best friend to fight your battles, you knew you were going to forgive your husband but you allowed her to get involved. Now you are in a mess. You can't fix this..let it go, your friend must just stay away from your friend.
@tboseZA Your blindspot is that you are not taking a stand here..if you do not believe your mom uyaloya..get family elders to intervine to prove this to your wife .ask your wife to bring proof.if all fails. Then choose sides, mom or wife. You can't have both in this situation
@tboseZA@MomoMatsunyane Question, did he say he will marry you in the near future? If no. PUMA lapho you are not his plan. If yes ,sit him down and let him know this plan with baby mama will not work with you. Then take it from there.
@tboseZA Hai boo ,so much entitlement ...you were wrong , deal with the consequences. If you can't take responsibility you are a coward. Just forgive like she forgave you. And never do it again.