Men with emotional intelligence are so attractive. They don't insult you, they don't ignore you, they speak to you gently even though they're mad at you; they don't become aggressive or manipulative, they listen, they respond, and they patiently hold a safe space for you >>>
i'm proud to say, i've mastered self-comforting over time. i've learned to cry alone, give my own shoulder a pat, wipe my own tears and convince myself that everything's gonna be fine whenever the world weighs me down. the consoling that i can give myself is the one that i need
“Berdamai dengan takdir” is a simple phrase but it’s the hardest part of living. To ikhlaskan everything, to accept whatever is written for you, to let go and let Allah. But once you did that, you will be in peace.
Find someone who isn’t afraid to admit that they miss you, who knows you aren’t perfect but treats you as if you are, who’s biggest fear is losing you, who says “I love you” and means it with all of their heart, someone who believes leaving and giving up isn’t an option.