They are our sisters, our neighbors, our coworkers, and our friends. Their wombs are NOT community property. Their choices are not public business. Their pain is not yours to poke at with casual comments and “funny” jokes. Y’all gotta stop this. Be freaking respectful.
I don’t ever do this, but here we go! Some 👏🏼women👏🏼struggle👏🏼trying👏🏼to👏🏼conceive👏🏼. I’m so tired of hearing things like “you’re selfish for not having a baby,” “do you even want kids,” “when are you gonna start having kids,” “are you trying?” The answer to your question is —
YES, we want them and we’re trying. Just because it was easy for you, doesn’t mean it’s easy for every other woman. Some people try for YEARS and end up never having the family they always wanted. These women are everywhere.